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Becoming a Butterfly


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Close your eyes and listen to the words to this song. Imagine the love. The lasting longing. The way that they would look forward to the morning to just see each others faces. Looking forward to nightime to listen to each others sleeping breath. Real love. Forever love. I have been very busy lately. I am sitting with a very old couple. He had a stroke and can't say much of anything. He can say "she's my sweetie", while looking at his wife. He can say " I love you " to her. That's all he can say and somehow that is enough. They have lived a lifetime together. They have five children. He is 88 and she is 83. Time probably won't grant them many more years together. Maybe not even many weeks. She tells me of when he farmed and of the war. She tells me of leaving her family in Colorado and moving to Alabama to be with him forever. She worries if he is cold. or hungry. She worries whether or not if he understands her. I tell her that he does. Love is a language that any heart can hear. I haven't been able to visit many of you. To read your wonderful blogs. I am not home very much now. I have been with this couple. I have been learning. About love. About what the vow REALLY means when the minister says " till death do you part". I'm afraid the day will come very soon when I will have time to come back here often. He isn't doing well. It will be the end of a love story. One that touched very few lives but one that has touched mine. I am grateful.
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What a beautifully sad post (hope that makes sense to you). What a gift it has been for them to have lived in love for so many years together. How sad that it may soon have an earthly ending (although I really don't believe it will end, I believe a love like that goes on forever).

 
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by Dragonflower (PM , CC ) on Sunday January 6, 2008 @ 3:02 PM




you are fortunate to witness such love,
it is awesome.
i agree with dragonflower, love is
forever. i'm 62, my hubby still calls
me baby. makes up silly love songs
and pats my wobbly fanny.
it is all a part of the miracle called
love.
 
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by judio (PM , CC ) on Sunday January 6, 2008 @ 3:31 PM




Thank you for sharing this beautiful love story with us. Know you do hate to leave them, and see him go. She will be right after him, I bet. With that kind of love she will not be able to live without him.

We've missed you, and pray you are fine. Keep us posted when you can.

Take care, Loveya, Heide
 
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by Heide (PM , CC ) on Sunday January 6, 2008 @ 7:17 PM




ValAnne - so great is this story and song; yes to grow old in love. I am glad to know what is occupying your time as I did wonder where you were. Blessings in this adventure you are a part of - June  
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by Praywithhope (PM , CC ) on Sunday January 6, 2008 @ 8:10 PM




Val, a sad love story but you are living their history through her, by hearing her story. Thanks for sharing.
n.
 
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by n. lynn (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 6:56 AM




That's a beautiful story, Val. My puter won't let me hear/see the song...
I'm glad you have the chance to witness their love story. This is what true love is all about!

Hope you're doing well.
 
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by Secret - Victoria's First (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 12:34 PM




That sounds like a really nice couple. I don't think you'll EVER regret one second of time that you have spent with them. Don't worry about us over here...we'll still be around when you have the chance to pop in.  
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by Bry_M (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 3:00 PM




I love that, ValAnne. I've been noticing older couples walking around, holding hands, looking so happy. I almost want to jump out of my car and run over to tell them they look so happy and congratulate them for a successful commitment! What a neat thing.

Take care!

Lulublue
 
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by Lulublue (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 3:20 PM




I'm afraid that I don't have what it takes for that kind of love. I have learned that in reality I never have wanted to marry the 2 men that I was married too. And the one man that I truly love, I got tired of him too. What does that say about me? I don't know. I just know that, that is true.
Fancie
 
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by Fancie's Glances (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 4:44 PM




How beautiful and yet it all goes by too quickly. God Bless them.  
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by Whispered Promise (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 10:13 PM




Beautiful song!  
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by Desari (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 10:21 PM




Dragonflower, I am so glad that you stopped by. I will be glad when I am able to visit you and my other dear friends here. Time is so fleeting now. I agree with you about love lasting forever. Something that powerful can't just end. I miss you my friend. love...  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 11:49 PM




Judio, How lucky you are to have such a lovely hubby. Treasure him as I'm sure you do. Thank you for stopping by. I look forward to getting to know you. Take care.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 11:50 PM




Heide, I have missed you a lot. I am spending many hours with them. You are probably right. She will follow him quickly, I am almost sure. Take care dear friend. love you  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 11:52 PM




June, Thank you for stopping by. My prayers go out daily for you and YOUR beloved. Take care my friend. love  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 11:53 PM




n.lynn, How are things with you my friend? I am so blessed to be witnessing this beautiful love story. It just seems so rare anymore and that makes me so sad. Take care and stay warm... love...
 
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 11:55 PM




Secret, I think of you so much and will be glad to be able to REALLY talk to you. I am staying busy and things are looking up. How is your mom and the kids? love you my friend...  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 11:57 PM




Bry, How are you? I sure miss your stories about work and Christine. I think of Cindy and hope that she is doing as well as can be expected. Take care friend..love....  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 11:58 PM




Lulublue, How's my friend? I hope that things are going well in your part of the country? I miss reading about it. I know what you mean about older couples. it just seems so rare anymore. Take care honey..love...  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 12:00 AM




Fancie, You have such a loving heart and I am confident that love, REAL love will come your way. I didn't fall in love until I was 50. It didn't last and I sometimes miss him but feel lucky to have felt it. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are a lovely, wonderful person and have been a good friend to me. love....  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 12:02 AM




Whispered Promise, How are you? I have thought of you often. I hope that things are going well for you. Take care my friend...  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 12:05 AM




Desari, I really like that song as well. The imagery is wonderful isn't it? Take care friend...  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 12:07 AM




Beautiful post BalAnne.....just remember even a tough year like you just had can transform in 2008 to a new beginning....May you and yours have a wonderful new beginning this year...love is the key  
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by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 2:41 AM




Good to hear from you, Val. I know you're very busy right now, so don't worry about me or any of us. I'm glad things are looking up for you!! You SO deserve it.

Mother is living in her new home & seems to really like it...which is good. The 2 older kids are both driving now, but doing good. B actually has his license!

Hope to hear from you soon, but take care of YOU first!
 
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by Secret - Victoria's First (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 10:05 AM




What a beautiful post! That made my day!  
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by ^BELLE^ (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 10:27 AM




Thanks for Sharing Their Story with us, Val ~ GlaD are doing well and staying busy.  
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by Mouse (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 10:42 AM




ValAnne:

That sounds like a real love story. Sometimes not even words are needed to convey feelings to a loved one.
 
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by Whit's Whittlings (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 5:16 PM




Thanks Val Anne,
I just have been so busy with work, the store and traveling, and with the holidays combined I felt a little winded at the end of it all. But everything was marvelous. Matthew and I are very blessed with our girls.
 
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by Whispered Promise (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 5:40 PM




Coloconnect, How ARE you? I have wondered about you. I hope to soon have the time to visit your and the other's blogs. I have missed them very much. Take care my friend and thanks for coming by.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 7:33 PM




^BELLE^, Thank you. Coming from someone that writes like you do, that is a high compliment. Hope that things are good with you? Take care.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 7:34 PM




Mouse, I really miss you and hope that things are good in your part of the world. Please take care. You are loved.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 7:35 PM




Whit, I'm glad that you visited. I'll be glad when I can come back to your blog. Hope that things are well with you. Take care.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 7:36 PM




take care of that wonderful couple for all of us.
thanks for the story, as you can see it touched a
lot of us.
we all believe in love.

judio
 
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by judio (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 8, 2008 @ 7:42 PM




Oh my goodness this post really touched my heart and put a smile on my face nothing is better then seeing the older people love one another. hope your doing well love ya  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Sunday January 20, 2008 @ 7:59 AM




Angie, Hi sweetness. I have thought about you often and wondered how you were. I hope that you have found some Peace and that life is treating you better. love you, Val  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Sunday January 20, 2008 @ 12:03 PM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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