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Tomorrow is a new year. A chance to start over. I read that Dan Folgerberg died last week. He was only 53 years old. This past year hasn't been a good one for me. I have had betrayal from a friend, heartbreak from someone that I once loved very much. Death of loved ones. A hard year. It will get better. I have made friends. I have smelled the wonder of a baby. I have seen him laugh. I have watched him learn. I have realized that people aren't always what or whom I thought that they were. 2008 will be my best year yet. Hopefully all of OUR best year. We have been given another chance. A chance to be happy. A chance to make a differance. I realized years ago by doing Mission work and nursing in foreign countries, that it is the little things that matter. The LITTLE things that make us honorable, that make us matter. We all have a chance to do that this year. We ALL can feed the hungry. We ALL can ease someone's loneliness. We ALL can ease someone's pain and make a differance in their life. Watch your children grow. Mow your neighbors yard or take them to the grocery. Visit a nursing home and listen to the stories. Mend a hurt. Make amends. Live your life with integrity. I am so blessed to have made such good friends here. I am thankful. You have touched my life. You have touched my heart. Thank you.
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hey,a new year is always a new beginning.and things ALWAYS pick up.  
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by cavtrooper (PM , CC ) on Monday December 31, 2007 @ 11:48 AM





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I loved what you said in your post, it's so true, we can make a difference in each other's lives. All it takes is a simple act of kindness, of compassion, of love.

Happy New Year ValAnne,
 
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by Dragonflower (PM , CC ) on Monday December 31, 2007 @ 5:13 PM




Cav, I hope that you have a wonderful new year too..Take care  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday December 31, 2007 @ 5:43 PM




Dragonflower, I hope that you have a wonderful New Year my friend. You are very special to me.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Monday December 31, 2007 @ 5:44 PM





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by Misty (PM , CC ) on Monday December 31, 2007 @ 5:57 PM




Wishing You a Safe and Happy New Year's Eve, Valanne ~ May the Coming New Year bring You Peace, Good Health, Joy and Prosperity. Beautiful Post, I count You as one of My Blessings.


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by Mouse (PM , CC ) on Monday December 31, 2007 @ 10:10 PM




ValAnne - trust that you are doing okay. I have been so busy this past two weeks with family here and now it is to quiet down a bit. It has been great getting to know you and I wish for you a wonderful 2008 -



MAKE 2008 GREAT!

A - Alright here we go again –
N - Now we are beginning a new year –
E - Ever wonder what the next twelve months will hold –
W - Welcoming things and people into one’s life – new and old.
Y – Yes, it is all about new and great beginnings;
E – Entering 2008 we cannot hesitate;
A – And we will anticipate love, laughter, peace and hope to
R – Reach around the world beginning in our corner of the world first!

Love and blessings - June
 
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by Praywithhope (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 1:44 PM




June, it has been wonderful getting to know you and your sweet hubby as well. I'm glad that you are having a good time with family there. I plan to make this my best year ever. I hope that it is your's. Take care my friend.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 7:22 PM




Mouse, When I came here, you welcomed me and made me feel "at home". You are one of my "most precious" and you are loved. Thank you my friend...  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 7:23 PM




Misty, Have a wonderful New Year !!! Take care.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 7:24 PM




I can attest to 2007 being a year of ups and downs as well....I'm sorry for your losses, but I'm glad that you have a good outlook for the new year. It's important to remember that tomorrow IS a new day and things CAN get better if you give the day a chance.  
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by Bry_M (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 7:28 PM




Oh Bry.... One of the things that I have missed the most while I have been gone is reading your blog..and YOU. You are a good and special man and I am honored to count you as a friend. Take care.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 7:32 PM




You are a blessing to us all....Heide

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by Heide (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 8:33 PM




ValAnne,

You express yourself so eloquently. Hope your New Year brings you inner peace and happiness.
 
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by Bella (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 8:50 PM




I wish you a mellow 2008, ValAnne. I think this coming year will be a more steady one without such lows and drama. Wishing you the best!

Lulublue
 
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by Lulublue (PM , CC ) on Tuesday January 1, 2008 @ 10:33 PM




ValAnne:

I am sorry to learn of your betrayal. You will just have to suck it up and start over with a new year.
 
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by Whit's Whittlings (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 5:22 PM




Love those last lines - yes, we can all feed the hungry, clothe the naked, care for the ill....

look forward to the unfolding of the year before us.

one of my gifts of 07 was connecting with you.

cheers.

ron
 
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by AZRON (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 5:24 PM




Your so right Val Anne we all have the chance right now to make this new year better then the ones before. I wish for you to have a great new year because you my friend deserve it love ya  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:18 PM




It's so hard to see people younger than me dying, ValAnne. I'm still a little bit like a kid in that I don't think I will ever die.

Thanks for this post. It was beautiful. Such a good reminder of what we should all do to make the New Year better.....for others and for us.
 
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by prisonerofhope (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:23 PM




Heide, You are a blessing to me as well. I feel like we have been friends for a long, long time. love you girl..  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:44 PM




Bella, Thank you so much. I thought about you while I was away. I hope that you are doing well. loveya  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:45 PM




Lulu, Hello my friend. I hope that things are going well in your part of the country? You are special to me.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:47 PM




Whit, Thank you. You would think at my age ( 53) things wouldn't bother me so much. I am learning to suck it up. Take care my friend.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:50 PM




Azron, Thank you. that made me cry. You are a gift to me as well and I thank God for that. Take care my friend.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:52 PM




Angie, When I first came here, you welcomed me. I will always love you for that. You and I share so much that I feel like you are my little sister. Love you girl  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:53 PM




POH, it IS hard to see people die. Thank you for coming by. You are such a gift to us. love you.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 6:54 PM




The saying "think globally and act locally"; idiotic in simplicity there is some merit to it.
I have watched parent-less children passed over by potential parents who flew all the way to China to get a child and then parade it around in a truly grotesque version of Münchhausen's by proxy.
It is how we treat our co worker, our neighbor , our employee, our employer, our mate, family members, our friends, our enemies and our selves that is at the core of how we define ourselves and our actions.
Good post..
 
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by capananda (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 7:25 PM




ValAnne,

I'm not spending as much time online as I used to and it's hard for me to get around to all my blogging friends. I hope you will have a much better year in 2008. I hope we all do.

Sherry
 
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by Sherry'sCherries (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 7:33 PM




I have my moments, but overall I am doing well! Don't be a stranger. Much love is coming your way, believe it!  
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by Bella (PM , CC ) on Wednesday January 2, 2008 @ 9:41 PM




Hiya Val! You have a wonderful outlook for the new year. I KNOW this will be YOUR YEAR for everything you want in your life. I think 2007 has been hard for many of us, but we WILL prevail!

Take care!!
 
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by Secret - Victoria's First (PM , CC ) on Thursday January 3, 2008 @ 3:28 PM





Sending much love from Secret!

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by Secret - Victoria's First (PM , CC ) on Friday January 4, 2008 @ 10:58 AM




Capananda, You are so right my friend. Thank you for coming by and I hope that things are going well for you. Take care  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Friday January 4, 2008 @ 6:57 PM




Sherry, I'm not able to get online as much either. Life gets in the way. I hope that things are going well for you too my friend. You are a treasure... Take care.  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Friday January 4, 2008 @ 6:58 PM




Bella, Awwww. Thank you honey. I sure hope so !!! Loveya  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Friday January 4, 2008 @ 7:00 PM




Secret, Yes we will my dear friend. You are such a blessing to me and I love you...  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Friday January 4, 2008 @ 7:01 PM




Have a great weekend!  
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by Desari (PM , CC ) on Friday January 4, 2008 @ 7:01 PM




Desari, I hope that your weekend is wonderful too my friend. I hope that you are keeping up with your wonderful writing.. Take care  
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by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Friday January 4, 2008 @ 7:10 PM




I too am thankful for you too ValAnne.  
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by Whispered Promise (PM , CC ) on Monday January 7, 2008 @ 10:13 PM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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