I was thinking of Tucker's father last night and what a coward that he is. I CAN NOT imagine not wanting to know that precious little boy. He is smart and beautiful and has his father's eyes. How easy it is for that man to just pretend Tucker doesn't exist. To just pretend that he never knew Tucker's mom. Tucker's dad had a vasectomy BUT he didn't wait long enough for it to be clear. That's his excuse... The age old excuse for revolting men...." He's not mine".... I am positive that the day will come when Tucker's dad is older. He will feel his life slipping away from him. He will want to know, really KNOW who he left behind. And he will wonder about Tucker.... Does he play ball? Did he join the Fire Department? Does he have children of his own? Chances are it will be too late. He is missing out on the good years. Thank Goodness that Tucker's mom and her boyfriend are there for Tucker. He isn't without love and kindness... Like his father will be.... One day.. The cat's in the cradle.
That's so sad. I'll never understand how anyone can do that to their own child. He doesn't deserve to know Tucker. I'm sure you're right that one day he'll regret it. One can only hope... He's lucky to have the love he does from the rest of you. Smother him in it!
by ValAnne (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 15, 2007 @ 10:28 AM
We're doing pretty good & staying very busy. Since basketball practice has started now, I'm taking B & T to & from practices - at 2 different times every night. Our games start next Tuesday evening & they'll have 2-3 each week & on weekends too several times. At least the majority of their games are at the same place/night.
by Randy (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 15, 2007 @ 8:52 PM
VAlAnne - it is so sad that many people do not wake up until it is too late and then they wonder why no one cares - glad Tucker is well cared for and loved - blessings, June
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So sad for Tucker
There are toooo many fatherless children in our world!
Any body can be a sperm donor, but it takes a special man to be a daddy!
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I know it's gotta' be tough, but don' let your anger get in your way of your life, etc.
I'm pretty sure he's NOT thinking about you or losing sleep about it. So, I would MOST kindly suggest that you don't either.
My best to you and yours, kind soul ....
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